i’ve tried lots of things, one big problem is my hair is curly at the bottom and really, really dry at the bottom but it gets greasy and nasty at the top, how can i fix this. i don’t want to dry my hair out more but i hate the greasiness. Don’t tell me to use this or that shampoo because i swear i’ve tried hundreds out. Any home remedies or tips i can follow? my hair is also very very coarse and rough, anything to make it softer? please help!