How do I get my face to look more feminine but not too attractive? Posted on October 23, 2011 by Baday I’m a guy, I’m looking to go more feminine and soft but I want to still be attractive to women too. What should I do? You know, I have dark eyes and dark straight hair, thick eyebrows, average nose, thick lips, oval shaped face and pale skin, some of my features are already soft but. . . You do not need to know why I want to go more feminine. Some guys are naturally more feminine and soft looking.